Meet Debbie
From limited opportunity to a lifetime of service
I know what it means to believe in the power of opportunity, because I have lived it.


My journey
Rural Alabama → Cotton mill → State government → U.S. Army Reserves → Florida → United Kingdom → Motherhood → Fairfax County → FCPS substitute teacher → PTA leadership → Community leadership → School Board candidate
I grew up in a small rural community in Alabama at a time when my family and community faced food insecurity and opportunities for education beyond high school were limited. For many young people, there simply wasn’t a clear path forward after graduation.
After high school, I went to work in a cotton mill making T-shirts. It was honest work, but I knew I wanted more for my life. An opportunity to work for a state government agency opened another door.
That experience taught me something that has stayed with me throughout my life: opportunity can change the direction of a person’s life.
I later joined the U.S. Army Reserves, where I had the privilege of serving as an active-duty soldier managing the personnel department at a U.S. Army Reserve Center. Military service strengthened my commitment to leadership, responsibility, teamwork, and serving something larger than myself.
After I married, I was honorably discharged and moved to Florida, where I became Executive Assistant to the President of a local television station. Following my husband’s career took our family to the United Kingdom and eventually back to the United States, between the East Coast and West Coast.
Then came another important chapter: motherhood. Raising our children and moving with our family meant I could not always work full time. But I never stopped working for my community.
When we settled in Fairfax County, I became an FCPS substitute teacher, a role I held for 20 years. Being in classrooms gave me an up-close view of the dedication of teachers and staff and the diverse needs of our students and families. And I found another place to serve: PTA.
Leadership & experience
A record of service
My leadership experience extends across education, government, military service, PTA, civic organizations, and community advocacy.
Education & schools
- FCPS Substitute Teacher · 20 years in Fairfax County classrooms
PTA leadership
- PTSA President · Thomas Jefferson High School for Science & Technology
- PTSA President · Centreville High School
- Northern Virginia District PTA Director · District level
- Fairfax County Council PTA President · County level
- Virginia PTA Vice President of Membership · State level
- Virginia PTA Vice President of Leadership Development · State level
- National PTA Nominating, Leadership & Recruitment Committee · National level
Community leadership
- Chair, Celebrate Fairfax Board of Directors · Community leadership
- Fairfax County Boards, Authorities and Commissions · County service
- FCPS special committees · School system service
Military & public service
- U.S. Army Reserves · Active-duty soldier managing the personnel department at a U.S. Army Reserve Center
- State government and private sector · Professional experience before and after military service
My leadership philosophy is simple: Listen. Serve. Collaborate. Advocate. Deliver.
Why I’m running
Where you start does not have to determine where you finish

I am running because I believe education is one of the greatest pathways to opportunity. I have spent decades listening to parents, students, educators, staff, and community members, and I believe their voices belong at the decision-making table.
I have been a student who faced limited opportunity. A worker. A public servant. A soldier. A mother. A substitute teacher. A PTA leader. A community advocate. And throughout every chapter of my life, I have been a servant leader.
- Every student deserves a chance.
- Every family deserves a voice.
- Every educator deserves support.
- Every community deserves to be heard.
I’m ready to listen. I’m ready to advocate. I’m ready to lead.
Debbie Kilpatrick
Candidate for Fairfax County School Board At-Large
My commitment to Fairfax County
More than 25 years of calling Fairfax County home
Fairfax County is not simply where my family lives. It is where I have spent decades serving. Strong communities don’t happen by accident. They happen when people show up. I have shown up, and I will continue to show up for the entire Fairfax County community.